Sex Magic – How to use your orgasm and sexual energy to manifest your dreams
what is it Sex magic and how to do it
Sex magic is the practice of directing your orgasmic energy towards an intentional conscious manifestation. So you want to manifest a new job/ home/ lover of your dreams? This is how….Fast!
Set your Sacred Space
Get comfortable. Where would you like to do your ritual? In bed, outside, under the moon, or somewhere else sacred?
You might like to burn some oils, incense, or sage and play some music to get you into the magical energy. Of course, it all depends on how much time you have.… In my bedroom, I have some yoni art on my wall that for me, signifies being witnessed by the Goddess. This acts as a sacred element for me, especially when I’m rushed for time.
Drop into your magical, Sex magic energy
I like to close my eyes and lay back, legs open bent at the knees, I touch the souls of my feet together. Put one hand on your heart and the other on your sex/yoni or sacral chakra (the womb area between your yoni and belly button).
Take some deep breaths, tuning into the quiet darkness of your womb, like a cauldron of manifestation.
Male bodied folk can do this too! If calling this space a womb doesn’t work for you, that ok, call it your cauldron, chakra, or whatever works for you. Sex magick is for everyone.
What do you want to bring in?
Focus your intention on what you are wanting to bring into your life. See it in your mind’s eye, hear what it would sound like, feel it with your body, taste it if you can.
Embody whatever it is and feel the joy that it will bring to your life if it is in your highest good and the highest good of those around you. Free will is important here folks for us white light magical Goddesses!
Sex Magic on your own and or your lover.
When practicing sex magic with my lover, we like to focus on what we want to call in individually, then say it out loud.
If one of us calls in something the other also wants, then, the other might call out YES in excitement! Or repeat it, building up the energy for this to come to both of us!! You can feel the energy building and rising!! It’s happening!
If you are practicing on your own, you can call out what you want to bring in or say it to yourself, whatever feels more powerful and passionate for you to channel sex energy into its creation and manifestation…. Get excited now, because this is happening!!!!!!!
Raising your orgasmic energy
Now, its time to raise your orgasmic energy to devote to your manifesting. There are lots of ways to do this… You can self-pleasure on your own, self-pleasure together (each of you focusing on your own pleasure through masturbation), or make love to each other. The main point here is that you are focusing on what you are calling in while you are building orgasmic sex magic energy.
The big O
Now its totally ok if you lose focus a bit whilst in the throes of passion, but when you are reaching climax, keep your focus on what you are manifesting as much as possible. Sometimes I will call out what I am manifesting in my full-powered orgasmic sounds.
Feel the release of your manifestation magic shooting up and out into the universe. It is now being propelled by your supercharged orgasmic bliss, to be manifested into being and then come back to you in reality. Say ‘this or something better manifests for me now!!. It is done, It is done, It is done.’
Revel in the bliss and witnessing
Take some time now to revel in the beautiful sensations running through your body, spend some sacred time with your lover, or with yourself. Feel the softness of your/their skin, listen to the music. Spend some time eye gazing and honoring your lover or spending time with the Yoni Goddess art, the witness to your magical manifestation ritual.
Want to learn more??
I first learned about sex magick back in the ’90s after reading the book ‘Witch’ written by Iconic Aussie witch and rock star Fiona Horne. Click here to check out her site.
Fancy some Yoni art of our own to tighten your own sex magic practice? Head on over to my shop to pick yourself up a print or commission your own portrait.